wrong

 you said your bestie knows she...was it does wrong? what was your wording?...

that she's a single mom with a child. or was it another friend? anyway. 

i had to correct you. and you said you'd misspoken. i thought that was strange and filed that away; you said she was wrong. i explained that she wasn't the one committing the wrong. you agreed and said that she chose wrong, is that what you then said?...

i know your English still isn't perfect despite living in Ireland for a decade, but you know the word wrong. you know what it means. 

that was one early red flag, only i didn't see it as a red flag. blaming a woman for being abused. blaming a woman for being with an abuser.

and then saying you didn't use the word wrong right.